Match Made in Hell?
A New York man has had his fair share of rejection, courtesy of an Match.com, an online dating site where singles (or not) are able to browse countless profiles in the hopes of finding Mr. Wonderful or Miss Perfect. Sean McGinn has filed a lawsuit against the site and says the company incorporates deceptive business practices. Apparently, there are many profiles that are considered “free subscriptions” and users are severely limited in what he or she can and can’t do on the site. One of those limitations includes not being able to respond to an interested party. McGinn kept choosing potential love interests, unaware they weren’t full members via the paid subscription and he now says this has caused emotional damage. He says it’s affected his self-esteem and Match.com should have at least let everyone in on the inability of some users to socialize via the site’s messaging program.
But is this any different than life outside virtual parameters? How many of us have pulled the “fake phone number” play? How many of us have shown interest and been met with phone calls not returned by our intended? The truth is, rejection is just a part of life - in all aspects of our lives - professional and private. You win some, you lose some. Still, McGinn insists he’s been the victim of way too many rejections and if he’d known that some of those potential matches could have worked out, had the other party opted for a paid subscription, then perhaps his confidence wouldn’t have taken the hit.
He’s now wondering how many matches he’s missed out on. I don’t know for sure, but I’m guessing this lawsuit probably won’t help his love life either. A tough skin is required in real life if any of us expect to get through our days and many are turned off by the possibility of having to walk on eggshells in an effort to avoid inflicting “profound personal anguish and suffering” on those around us, which is what his lawsuit further claims. The monetary amount he’s suing for hasn’t been released yet, or even if he’s suing for money; since the suit was filed only this week, it’ll be awhile before the outcome is known.
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