It was announced today that Brad Pitt will be contributing $100,000 in his efforts to prevent voters from overturning the recent Supreme Court ruling that allows gay marriages in California. Strange bedfellows, for sure. Apparently, he’s pretty adamant in his belief that there’s no room for discrimination in his America. I agree, but it’s interesting to me that he chose this sub-heading under the “Discrimination” outline. The quote I found regarding his contribution:
“Because no one has the right to deny another their life, even though they disagree with it, because everyone has the right to live the life they so desire if it doesn’t harm another and because discrimination has no place in America, my vote will be for equality and against Proposition 8,” Pitt said Wednesday. (Courtesy of New York Daily News)
Gay marriages in America are a tough issue to tackle on any level. Whether one’s arguing the Biblical aspects or if the legalities are being debated, you can be sure there are some strong opinions on what’s acceptable and what’s not acceptable. There’s no win-win for a naïve person who wishes to make a point, only to be clobbered by those who vehemently disagree. So, I decided a long time ago I’d stick to the plain vanilla politics. Oh, don’t misunderstand me - I’m not afraid of a little debate here and there, it’s just that it’s rare, if ever, one changes his mind about such an issue and it’s so exhausting trying to talk over some folks. This is one of those rare “no middle of the road” stands we take from time to time.
And yes, there have been times I’ve wondered if my refusal to argue which side of the fence I’m on is a sign of weakness. Maybe. I haven’t figured that one out yet. I’m adamant in my beliefs, but just as adamant in not having to defend or apologize for those beliefs.
Supporters of gay marriages, which, by the way are legal in Massachusetts and California, insist that gay partners should be afforded the same financial and social protections that those who are in more traditional marriages are guaranteed, including being added to employer-provided health insurance policies. That, to me, makes perfect sense. We, as a country, are concerned about the

Courtesy of NY Daily News
increasing numbers of the uninsured. And yes, I realize allowing gays the rights to a legal marriage will not solve this; however, you have to admit, it does smack of double standards. And then there are those who believe adoptions between same sex partners will result in a generation of morally bankrupt children. Honestly, I’m more concerned about the kids who are growing up in homes with their biological parents and who are breathing in the toxins from the meth being cooked in the next room. That’s my idea of a real problem. This, as well as a million more “arguments within the battle” will continue probably until the end of time.
Aside from the economic and legal aspects, the most vocal opposers are often the ones who want to ensure everyone’s safe transport into Heaven. I get it. But I also get that I’m not on this earth to ensure anyone’s happiness or choices are on solid foundations. Again, this goes back to my having a full plate with my own justifications regarding my own life. I have no idea what it’s like to be gay in America, or a convicted felon or a drug addict. In fact, I have a pretty easy life, but I’m also not one to be bothered with other people’s thoughts about me.
If Brad Pitt, or anyone else for that matter, feels as though financial contributions will help get a point across, so be it. Personally, I would’ve sunk a hundred grand into something else, but not because I have a problem with what he chose. His money, his contribution, right? I think I’d have probably been a bit selfish if I had money that wasn’t earmarked for such whimsical and luxurious indulgences like the power bill or the Visa statement.
There’s no easy answer and my guess is the elections in November are going to be interesting not only because of the colorful Presidential candidates, but because of issues such as gay marriages on the California ballots. We all know Brad Pitt rules the movie screen, we’re about to find out if he rules or even has an affect on the ballot boxes.